Holland lovers weekly magazine editor-in-chief Jaafar Al-Khabouri

Sexual abuse of sons and daughters is one of the most dangerous phenomena that a society needs, and it is not hidden from anyone who has insight into education that it is of great importance in the development of peoples and nations, and the advancement of their morals. In them, so that they do not do the sacred and do not look at the forbidden from them and form their behavior according to the principles and creed of the nation. The family plays a duty and important educational role in a time when it faces doctrinal, intellectual, sexual and moral challenges, and it is more than ever required to do the impossible to protect its sons and daughters from deviation, So that some of them do not tolerate watching sexual movies that make them deviate into adultery and harassment. We ask God to reform our sons and daughters, O Lord of the worlds.
1 Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
2 The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said to Ali, may God be pleased with him: “O Ali, do not follow the gaze from the gaze, for you have the first and you do not have the afterlife” (Narrated by Ahmad).
3 for Ibn Masoud, may Allah be pleased with him.

Factors and causes:

Perhaps some of the reasons and factors that make each of the individual in particular and society in general to watch sex movies are as follows:
1- Social openness: for example, the concept of personal freedom, it means that a person transcends the customs, values ​​and traditions of the society according to what suits his whims, without fear or apprehension, which has made us lose an important educator. Going out with a man who is not permissible for her, which leads to many evils.
2 - The large number of sources of reception and the weakness of censorship, such as the Internet, as well as theatre, cinemas, television, the press and publishing houses, have a great impact in spreading nudity and love stories that make each of the parties search for fake love whose basis is forbidden and stimulates the instincts of both sexes to watch movies nationality.
3- Parents: their role in sexual education and their role in education, supervision and guidance were absent, which led to the wrong enlightenment from the outside so that this person tends to watch sex and go deeper into watching movies and pictures.
4- Delayed marriage age: It is one of the reasons for watching sexual movies. It is necessarily known that marriage is a fortress for man in general, and for a Muslim in particular, from falling into moral slippage and deviations related to sex, as stated in the Prophet’s hadith: (Lower the sight and protect the private part)
5- Friends and peers: For example, early access to sexual matters by sending clips via mobile and sending links on YouTube that broadcast sexual films that make a young man addicted to these views and may be subject to deviation from forbidden things that are stored by the Internet.
6- The spiritual and faith emptiness of the adolescent and the investigation of the parents in the lack of follow-up and attention to it.
7- Love imitation and draw attention to those around him with his behavior as a result of watching the clips and accepting some cultures and behaviors contrary to the culture of his society.
8- The void that the teenager goes through most of his time makes the teenager occupy him in what causes him harm.
9- Falling media, modern technology and cultural invasion with the emergence of dramas and serials that affected the adolescent so that he performs deviant behavior
10 The neglect of educational institutions for their role in guiding the adolescent in the correct direction
11- Bad company and parents' lack of interest in who accompanies their son, and this company has a great impact in the case of depriving the adolescent from the emotional side, which leads to the satisfaction of this side through friends.
12 The silence of society, the media, and generalizations about the spread of this problem, which has spread and spread among our sons and daughters.
The social and moral implications of this problem (damages):
One of the most common problems that parents face in adolescence are sexual disorders and the tendency to the opposite sex that occur to them at this age, and this problem increases when children watch sexual clips through films or those scandalous images through the means of communication, as well as at this stage the teenager suffers from Not knowing the reality of sex and the nature of its problems, he turns to his peers in many cases to obtain information about sex.
Perhaps the social and moral damages are the following:
1- Stirring up the sexual instinct in both sexes to seek its application with the opposite sex, and this leads to adultery, God forbid.
2- Decreases the religious scruples and God’s observance in their hearts, and the continuation of watching those sexual clips and images.
3- Not wanting to marry because it may be forbidden relationships, whether by meeting or through contact because of these sexual passages.
4- Both sexes may incline to each other when stimulating lust after watching movies, so some men see that their instinct is reversed, so they do homosexuality with the other man, as well as the female doing homosexuality with the same sex.
5- Divorce cases increase, and he sees that woman doing these sexual movements, and the devil may adorn him with her beauty, so the man searches for a woman who is of the same beauty and hates his wife after these observations, so he thinks of divorcing her and getting rid of her.
6 Rape and adultery are increasing in the community due to the lack of awareness of the harmful effects of these sexual films on our sons and daughters, and they think that their actions are correct, and this is what is called personal freedom.

Holland lovers weekly magazine, editor-in-chief Jaafar Al-Khabouri